In my Vlog this week, I went on a bit regarding the impact we can have on student achievement, as well as a brief discussion around one of the Common Principles outlined by the Coalition of Essential Schools. While the Coalition officially ceased operations as an organization in March of 2017, the Common Principles are still alive and well in CES schools, and should be known and practiced by ALL schools regardless. Because they make sense. And they are good for kids.
The Principle I highlighted says this: "the school should focus on helping young people learn to use their minds well."
Would you say this is true? Is there anyone who would say no, that this is not something we need to make absolutely sure we are doing? I mean, "using your mind well"... this is an absolute necessity in any walk of life, at any time of life, for every single person. For living. In fact, if you do not learn to use your mind well, I dare say you will fall victim to all kinds of treachery and maliciousness and deceit and lies and bribery, and the list goes on. One cannot begin to decipher all of the various informational sources and on-the-spot decision-making thrown at a person throughout the course of one's life without being able to use your mind well. I almost feel like this should be a no-brainer.
And yet, it's not that simple.
Even now, we can look around and find examples;
examples of students not using their minds well,
examples of adults not ensuring that every single class,
every single day,
is FILLED with the type of engaging, mind-inspiring, thought-provoking,
make-me-wanna-know-more,
knock-down-the-door-cuz-I-can't-wait-to-get-to-class
content and lessons and environment that should be part of every classroom.
Every. Single. Day.
Please don't walk away from here thinking I'm saying that it's a teacher's job to entertain the kids. Because that's too much like babysitting.
Rather, what I'm trying to say to you is that every single moment counts, and even though not every single one of those moments needs to be filled with excitement (indeed, read the work of Mike Schmoker to discover the importance of making sure kids understand the basics; he reminds us that this is not always awe-inspiring fun), every single one of those moments needs to be accounted for.
Intentionally accounted for.
Intentionally filled with activities and moments that engage the minds of students, that show them the connections between what they are doing during the school day and what they could be doing beyond the walls of the school. For schooling's intention, in its purest form, is to spark a desire for learning that continues well beyond the years of one's formal education.
How do we ensure this? Obviously this intentionality, this passion, this drive and motivation and urgency about which I write isn't going to stick with every single student. It goes back to a previous post where I included a quote about the student being ready, and only then does the teacher appear...
And it seems counterproductive, doesn't it? That the student needs to be ready for the teacher to appear, only to not be needed in the end and become one's own teacher.
But that's the cycle. And in the mad dash during those 12-13 years of formal schooling, why would we leave anything to chance? Why would we not want to engage in an audit to ensure that every single thing we do - every day - helps students to use their minds well?
Tuesday, February 19, 2019
Wednesday, February 13, 2019
High Stakes of High School Relationships
In a weekly vlog I record, I recently spoke of trust and relationships and the fact that just because one holds the title of teacher or principal, or has the status of any type of leader in an authoritative role over students... does not necessarily mean that a student will learn from you. Unless, of course, there is trust as the foundation of that relationship.
The student who comes to us after three years of middle school with maybe
Think about the tenuous relationship you have with the typical high school student.
The student who comes to us after five to six years with one main teacher,
Day in and day out of his elementary school,
For approximately
For approximately
The student who comes to us after three years of middle school with maybe
four or five teachers,
Day in and day out
For approximately
For approximately
3,600 hours.
This high school student
Who will, over four years, spend approximately 5,000 hours with us - perhaps
Seven or eight adults
Every day
For a mere 45 minutes per day,
Per class.
By now, that student has developed some understandings (real of perceived) about school, about teachers, about relationships and about life. He may come from a single-parent family home, may dread the thought of coming to school every day, may have had some negative experiences with teachers. Now he's here in your classroom. He shows up every day, though you find yourself asking why since he doesn't do anything anyway. It seems he would rather get into fights with other kids and do anything other than what you are asking him to do.
And he will spend approximately 5,000 hours within the four walls of this place.
That's a lot of hours to spend
in a place that feels hollow to you,
in a place where no one seems to know you,
in a place where adults you barely know are
telling you what to do,
asking that you learn from them.
Now imagine a high school of over 2,000 students. I speak from experience when I tell you that kids get swallowed alive in a high school of this size. Not all kids, of course. Many thrive in this type of culture. But when I can walk out the side door during the middle of the day and no one notices but the security guy watching the camera, no one says anything to me except for the Dean of Students - and he speaks to me only because he has to issue some type of consequence for ditching - this is a problem.
Relationships are high stakes for these end-game users, these high school Seniors who have yet to experience a meaningful relationship with an adult other than (hopefully) a parent.
Relationships are high stakes to that kid who is only with you for 45 minutes a day.
Relationships are high stakes, especially if we want kids to learn from us, to call us teacher, to trust that we have their best interests in mind.
5,000 hours is a lot of time.
Plenty of time to build relationships,
Create a trusting bond,
Understand where a student has come from, and
Where he wants to go.
5,000 hours is a lot of time.
Make every one of those hours count.
Be intentional.
There was a quote I heard early on in my journey as a teacher and principal. The origin has been lost over the years. One version of it reads:
"When the student is ready, the teacher appears."
I remember clearly struggling with the meaning of these words, not being able to comprehend their true meaning at the time...
Trust has to be at the center.
In order to build trust, you have to put in the time.
In order to put in the time with a kid, you have to be intentional.
With your words and actions, you have to be highly intentional.
5,000 hours may seem like a lot of time. And really it is.
But if you are intentional about each of these hours,
Every one of those hours can be highly meaningful.
If you believe in the power of intentional trust-building.
If you understand how high the stakes are.
Only then will the student will be truly ready.
Only then will the teacher appear.
Per class.
By now, that student has developed some understandings (real of perceived) about school, about teachers, about relationships and about life. He may come from a single-parent family home, may dread the thought of coming to school every day, may have had some negative experiences with teachers. Now he's here in your classroom. He shows up every day, though you find yourself asking why since he doesn't do anything anyway. It seems he would rather get into fights with other kids and do anything other than what you are asking him to do.
And he will spend approximately 5,000 hours within the four walls of this place.
That's a lot of hours to spend
in a place that feels hollow to you,
in a place where no one seems to know you,
in a place where adults you barely know are
telling you what to do,
asking that you learn from them.
Now imagine a high school of over 2,000 students. I speak from experience when I tell you that kids get swallowed alive in a high school of this size. Not all kids, of course. Many thrive in this type of culture. But when I can walk out the side door during the middle of the day and no one notices but the security guy watching the camera, no one says anything to me except for the Dean of Students - and he speaks to me only because he has to issue some type of consequence for ditching - this is a problem.
Relationships are high stakes for these end-game users, these high school Seniors who have yet to experience a meaningful relationship with an adult other than (hopefully) a parent.
Relationships are high stakes to that kid who is only with you for 45 minutes a day.
Relationships are high stakes, especially if we want kids to learn from us, to call us teacher, to trust that we have their best interests in mind.
5,000 hours is a lot of time.
Plenty of time to build relationships,
Create a trusting bond,
Understand where a student has come from, and
Where he wants to go.
5,000 hours is a lot of time.
Make every one of those hours count.
Be intentional.
There was a quote I heard early on in my journey as a teacher and principal. The origin has been lost over the years. One version of it reads:
"When the student is ready, the teacher appears."
I remember clearly struggling with the meaning of these words, not being able to comprehend their true meaning at the time...
Trust has to be at the center.
In order to build trust, you have to put in the time.
In order to put in the time with a kid, you have to be intentional.
With your words and actions, you have to be highly intentional.
5,000 hours may seem like a lot of time. And really it is.
But if you are intentional about each of these hours,
Every one of those hours can be highly meaningful.
If you believe in the power of intentional trust-building.
If you understand how high the stakes are.
Only then will the student will be truly ready.
Only then will the teacher appear.
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